This was our first Christmas here living on PEI. I knew it was going to be different not having the kids for Christmas this year but it didn’t really feel like Christmas at all. I have always gone big at Christmas with lots of decorations, plenty of baking, tons of shopping and doing lots of wrapping of presents. I love it all. But this year, although there were decorations up, there was no baking done, very little shopping done in the stores (most things were bought on line and delivered straight to their addresses) and virtually no wrapping of presents done. It felt really weird not to be doing those things. I really missed that.
Ron and I had decided not to buy presents for one another because we just bought a house and had a garage built. We were in agreement that those things were our gift to one another. However, when we in a store and if Ron saw something he thought he might like, I told him to get it and I would wrap it up and put it under the tree for him. They were just little things under $10.00 but at least he would have something to open for Christmas, even if he did know what it was. Then Ron was feeling guilty that he would be opening up a present and I wouldn’t so he started talking that he should get something for me. I said no but he kept bringing it up. When we were in Mark’s Warehouse buying something for my son, I saw a shirt on sale for under $10.00 and told him to wrap this up and put it under the tree for me. We laughed but said “that’s it! No more!”
Christmas morning came and we sat around the tree and looked at the few little things that were put under the tree. When the kids were with us, we were used to seeing the tree loaded up with presents that would take hours to unwrap. Now there were 4 little parcels under the tree. It felt weird. I handed Ron a gift and he opened it with such glee. He ooohed and aaahhhed like it was the best gift ever … even though he knew before opening what it was. It was pretty funny. Then we let Bailey open his present. He tore a little piece of the wrapping paper off then looked at me as if to say “are you going to help me?”. I helped tear the paper off, then Bailey got a whiff of what it was and went crazy! He got all excited with his new bag of soft treats! I opened the bag and let him put his face in to take one, but he was so excited that he pulled his face out of the bag with more treats than he could handle and they spilled onto the floor. It was a mad dash as to who was going to get them first, us or Bailey! It was hilarious!!
Then I got to open up my present. I was looking forward to seeing the shirt I picked out earlier, as I couldn’t remember what color it was, but I was really surprised as to what Ron had added to the gift. He had added his own touch to the gift, without spending any money. Best gift ever! He had sandwiched my shirt between two pieces of cardboard. On the cardboard he wrote:
“Sweetheart Shirley
Santa told me not to get you a present this year. So, what else could I give you without spending our money?
I will give you all my love … forever.
I will look after you … forever.
I will understand you when you ask me to do things, no matter how silly I think they are J
You have made me very happy.
I will do my very best to love, respect and support you … FOREVER!
Love you
Ron”
I ask you … is that not the best gift ever!! What more could I ask for. I am truly grateful that I have married a man who loves me so much. AND … I have it in writing! J
After we opened our gifts, I made a big breakfast with orange juice, bacon, hash browns, eggs over easy and toast. Then I put the turkey in. We had an early dinner around 4:30 p.m. It sure felt different not having to cook for a lot of people this year. I tried to make it the same as previous years by putting out all the trimmings ie. Pickles, olives, sweet onions etc. but it just didn’t feel the same. Once we finished eating we just looked at each other and said “well … so much for Christmas.”
Boxing Day I woke up, feeling a little depressed. Without the kids and family around it just didn’t feel like we had a Christmas. So we did something that I never ever do. We took down all the Christmas decorations, dismantled the tree and stored everything Christmas away. Usually I don’t take things down until January. Maybe next year we will be more adjusted to being by ourselves for the holiday season and can celebrate Christmas longer.
The one thing I did appreciate this year was the Christmas cards that we received from people back home. It may seem like a small thing, but I always looked forward to receiving cards at Christmas time. It means that people are thinking of you, and with moving out to PEI this year, it’s nice to know that people are still thinking of us. So thank you to everyone who sent us a Christmas card this year. It meant a lot to us and we really appreciated it.
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Can I open my present? |
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Our Christmas tree |
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Here Bailey ... you can open this one. |
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I know there is something in here |
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Oh I found it!! I want it NOW!! |
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Ron looking surprised at his non-surprise gift |
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Opening up my present from Ron |
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Love what I found inside. |
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Surprise message from Ron. I love it!! |
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My non-surprise shirt from Ron |
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When I saw it I had to get it for him! Every man needs one! |
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A gift from his mother in-law. He loves it! |
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A gift from my mom. The coat is good for -35C weather! |